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Saturday, September 14, 2019

Can Real Heroes Play the Accordion/Do the Polka? by Marianne Stephens



Can your hero play chess? Knit? Do the polka?

While all are worthwhile things to do...and I don't want to slight any man who does them!...I think these hobbies can add to a hero's macho facade and alpha male persona in romance books to gain a reader's attention. Real men can do anything, not just something that highlights a strong, physical physique.

In a story I've written, Operation Man Hunt, the hero finds out the heroine has asked a mutual friend about him in an effort to "catch" him by showing interest in his hobbies. Deciding to "turn the table" on her, he has the friend feed her misinformation. Two of his favorite things? Playing the accordion and dancing the polka.
In my book, "Strip Poker for Two" (by April Ash), hero Jason actually has played the tuba while in the angst years of teen crushes. He tried serenading the girl of his dreams, heroine Allison. His tuba playing expertise and stories are inserted in their story, and he gets one last embarrassing chance to play for a room full of guests...including the heroine.

 Allison realizes she'd been embarrassed by Jason's school-years attention, and the tuba serenades just made him more undesirable at the time. Memories of Jason's playing music just for her make him more endearing as their relationship heats up and the tuba songs don't seem quite so embarrassing.

 Do these hobbies make the heroes any less desirable? Can your heroes have these hobbies and still have you craving their passionate embraces?

Marianne Stephens

Photos: Flickr: Sandy Kemsley and Carsten Knoch photostreams.

Friday, September 13, 2019

#NewRelease #Alert - The #SoldiersofFortune are back with an all new installment #RB4U #SOF #Romance #Suspense





S.O.F.: Soldiers of Fortune

A Romance Books 4 Us World (Volume Book 2)

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Rhett Fortune settled on the small parcel of land he purchased in 1858 with his wife Clara and founded the beautiful landscape that surrounded his newly built home and what is now known as Fortune, TX. A veteran of the United States Army and as a Colonel who served with honor in the Mexican-American War, Rhett and Clara raised a large family. Sons and daughters, and grandchildren to follow, their clan grew throughout the decades.

Now in the 21st Century, two of their descendants remain at the helm. Chance Fortune, a former member of the Army’s Delta Force and co-founder of Soldiers of Fortune, has an innate duty to serve and protect. Working with his brother, RJ Fortune, a former Navy SEAL and wounded warrior, they take the cases that their government won’t. And vow to protect the civilians that no one else can.
They have quietly put out the word and now, after three years, other former brothers-in-arms have contacted them bringing situations that span not only the country but the globe. On Fortune family land they have built a facility out of the public eye for their office, a helicopter, a gun range, and whatever else they might need.

They are the Soldiers of Fortune… and these are their stories.





Sacrifice: Part 2 by Nicole Morgan
Ever Since she entered the picture, his mission has changed.

Operation Undercover by Krista Ames
Don’t get caught under the covers.

Killing Me Softly by Deelylah Mullin
With only gunfire and each other to keep them company, can Jorden and Luke save the innocents without complicating things?

Dogs of Fortune by Joanne Jaytanie
The mission is clear, and this time Zane has no intention of leaving anyone behind.



Tuesday, September 10, 2019

LOVE CONQUERS ALL: Marrying For Love


Posted by R. Ann Siracusa

Romance writers, for the most part, believe that “Love Conquers All” -- Didn’t the Roman poet, Virgil, and Harlequin both say so? Heaven forbid that anyone contradict icons like Virgil and Harlequin.
The promise, and reality, of love gives us hope. It boosts our belief in humanity and nature that everything can come out right in the end. A warm and fuzzy feeling many of us need in today's world.
But let’s take a closer look. Virgil did, indeed write Amor vincit omnia, et nos cedamus amori. - Love conquers all things, so we too shall yield to love.Even our popular songs perpetuate the ideal vision of a happy love-marriage, so it’s easy to forget, in today’s world, that marrying for love is a relatively new concept … and maybe not such a good one at that.
Love And Marriage Go Together Like A
Horse & Carriage
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MARRYING FOR LOVE
Virgil did, indeed write Amor vincit omnia, et nos cedamus amori. - Love conquers all things, so we too shall yield to love,” but he also wrote, although not in the same poem, that “Work Conquers All”, and he never suggested love should be the primary reason for marrying.
Harleguin? Well, maybe a little.
As strange as it may seem to romance writers and reader today, love been embraced as a primary reason for marriage only since the late 1700s, and that is only in part of the world. It’s not that in many cultures and at many times a love-marriage was not to and hoped for eventually, but it wasn’t essential.
There have even been times and cultures where love was viewed as a disadvantage to a marriage. Stephanie Coontz tells us in her 2005 book [Marriage, A History: From Obedience to Intimacy, or How Love Conquered Marriage], that the ancient Greeks considered love a form of insanity. In India, falling in love before marriage was considered disruptive and a danger to society. In China too much love between a husband and wife was treated as a threat to the extended family. She writes,
“Only rarely in history has love been seen as the main reason for getting married. When someone did advocate such a strange belief, it was no laughing matter. Instead it was considered a serious threat to social order.” … “Through most of human history, love was not at all the point of marriage. Marriage was about getting families together, which was why there were so many controls.” www.thesunmagazine.org/issues/489
Until a few short centuries ago, marriage was all about survival, reproduction, social acceptance, and power.
The radical idea of marriage for love sprang up and began to take hold in the late 18th and early 19th centuries, in part because the Industrial Revolution allowed people to move away from a agrarian society – thus reducing the need for large families to work the land – and in part because the Enlightenment thinkers of the time embraced the issues of human rights and the right to personal happiness. The growth of capitalism led to growth in wealth and in the middle class, leading to more freedom of choice and the elevating the status of women [a little but certainly not to equality].
The Enlightenment’s rhetoric about the “right to personal happiness” may have proved to be sophistry. In the 21st century marriage and love are often depicted, together or apart, as being a state other than personal happiness.
Coontz quotes George Bernard Shaw’s portrayal of marriage as an institution that brings together two people “under the influence of the most violent, most insane, most delusive, and most transient of passions. They are required to swear that they will remain in that excited, abnormal, and exhausting condition continuously until death do them part.”
Good luck with that. www.thesunmagazine.org/issues/489/
                                    
WHAT’S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT?
In most cultures throughout history and throughout the world, marriages have been arranged, usually by parents but not always. In places where the arranged marriage tradition dates back to ancient times, the pact resulted in the merger of the two families.
Such a fusion carried with it broad ramifications relating to money and/or politics, which include power, influence, political authority, security, allies, social prestige, progeny, inheritance, and privilege. Choices were carefully calculated to advantage both families. Nonetheless, in most societies, including those with arranged marriages, the relationship with the greatest importance was that of the birth family. A person’s loyalty and emotional connection was owed to blood ties rather than to marriage.
MARRYING FOR MONEY                                                        
Nowadays, society tends to look down on the practice of marrying for money [which is equivalent to marrying for power], but that was one of the primary reasons for marriage until a few hundred years ago.
The Dowry
The dowry is the transfer of property or money from the bride’s family to the groom or to his family. Its purpose was to help the newly-wed couple establish a new household and also a form of protection for the bride against ill treatment by the husband or his family. Where this is the tradition, it is actually a conditional gift which should be restored to the wife and her family if the husband abuses or divorces her.Cartoon By Paul Lynch - Photo source: The Daily Toonwww.humortimes.com/cartoon-mark-lynch/
The husband can profit by it during the marriage, but the dowry would have to give it back in the case of mistreatment or divorce. My research found conflicting opinions regarding who controlled the money or property during the marriage.
Regardless of what the laws might have said, I'd put my money on the husband. Just sayin'.
This tradition most common in cultures that are strongly patrilineal and expect women to reside with or near their husband's family.
“I can’t offer you a dowry, but I can get you on my health plan.”Cartoon By Wildt
The Dower
A dower means a wife’s rights to her husband’s real property or wealth after his death. Her inheritance.
The Bride Price
The bride price [also called bride service or bride wealth] is a payment from the groom or his family to the bride’s parents. According to the Encyclopedia Britannica, the bride price was less an economic gesture but served to consolidate the friendship between the two families.
Whatever property belonging to the bride at the time of marriage remained her property under her control. The tradition of dowry and the expectations varied from one society and century to another.
IF IT WEREN’T FOR MY SPOUSE, WE’D BE THE PERFECT COUPLE
Cartoon by George Jartos, Source: Pinterest
Most people who aspire to marriage hope for the perfect match … hope to be the perfect couple. Soulmates.
American writer Richard Bach writes, “A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are."
Psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Carmen Harra writes,Your soulmate makes you feel entirely whole, healed and intact, like no piece is missing from the puzzle. A life partner, on the other hand, can be a great supporter and long-time companion, but is limited in his or her capacity to enrich your spirit. Most of us remain in life-partner relationships because we "settle," for a multitude of reasons.”
I agree with Barsha Nag Bhowmick, editor for Indiatimes.com, that “perfect couples” couples are really “imperfect couples” who have learned to enjoy their differences, regardless of whether it started out as a love marriage or an arranged marriage.
SHOPPING ON THE INTERNET
Western culture seems securely “entrenched” in the concept of marrying for love. Unfortunately, the person you fall in love with may not be the correct one for you to marry, much less a soulmate. Love frequently makes poor choices. Cupid would benefit from a few archery lessons.
Most surveys show that the number one place that singles meet in America is online, although family, friends, church, social is almost the same percentage. How is that so different from an arranged marriage? In the 21st century, even in an arranged marriage, the parties in question have to agree and accept the arrangement [according to what I read and have been told]. So, as I see it, the major difference occurs in the first part of the process: i.e. the screening of potential mates and introducing the best matches.
Of the two, I definitely prefer the online route. It doesn’t vet nearly as well as an eagle-eyed mother who wants the best for her son or daughter, but in these times of rapid change and more open communication, I trust people to know more about who they are and what they prefer than their parents do. Although parents often see things about their children that those individuals deny or are blind to, parents can be just as blind and have their own baggage, prejudices, experiences, and beliefs to deal with.
NO MATTER HOW YOU MEET, MARRIAGE A CRAP SHOOT!


AUTHOR R. ANN SIRACUSA
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“History: How Love Conquered Marriage” by Stephanie Coontz









Monday, September 9, 2019

Book Tour & Giveaway for Salvaging Truth

Salvaging Truth
Hunters & Seekers Book 1
by Joanne Jaytanie
Genre: Romantic Suspense, Action, Adventure
"A sprightly plotted thriller and dynamic characters should leave readers eager for the sequel."
-Kirkus Reviews
The world could be transformed if Riley can only stay alive long enough.
Most parents leave you a house, a car, or money when they die. Riley's mom left her a treasure hunt with a mysterious payoff. Now everyone seems to want a piece of Riley and her inheritance: the university, the military, mega corporations, and Russian spies.
Riley needs help to solve her mother's murder, and Dagger Easton's salvage and investigation company comes to her rescue. Retired SEAL, private eye, and leader of a diving and salvage team, Dagger promises to protect Riley with his life. But as the value of her mother's research becomes clear, Riley begins to believe there's no one she can trust--not with her life, her heart, or her mother's legacy.
Joanne was born and raised in Sherburne, New York, a quaint village surrounded by dairy farms and rolling hills. From the moment she could read she wanted to explore the world. During her college years, she slowly crept across the country, stopping along the way in Oklahoma, California, and finally Washington State, which she now proudly calls home. She lives with her husband and Dobermans, in their home located on the Olympic Peninsula with a panoramic view of the Olympic Mountains.
Joanne writes romantic suspense, paranormal, mystery-thriller, supernatural suspense, and contemporary romance. She loves to submerge herself in the world of her characters, to live and breathe their lives and marvel at their decisions and predicaments. She enjoys a wide variety of books including paranormal, suspense, thriller, and of course romance.
Joanne is a PAN member of Romance Writers of America, (RWA), Kiss of Death, (KOD), Greater Seattle Romance Writers Chapter, (GSRWA), Sisters In Crime (SIC), and Fantasy, Futuristic & Paranormal, (FFPRWA). She served as President of Peninsula Romance Writers, which was Debbie Macomber’s home chapter.
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