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Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Dear Diary -- Maybe Not!

As a girl, the only diary I kept was in my head. Not that I had terrible thoughts to hide. My mother didn’t believe children should have secrets, so when my younger brother started a diary at the age of ten, she forced it open, read it, and punished him for his private musings. I learned young that it was much better to relegate my memories and desires to memory. 

Famous people, on the other hand, run the risk of diaries from their earlier years someday being made public, sold to the highest bidder, or made into a movie. Here are some of the most famous diaries in our times:

President Harry Truman – 1945. He wrote that ‘we’ have discovered the most terrible bomb in the history of the world. Weeks later, the atomic bomb was dropped on Nagasaki, Japan.

General George S Patton – 1944. He believed battle fatigue was cowardice, and slapped weary soldiers in the face when he visited them in the hospital.

Ernest Hemmingway – 1908. At nine years of age he prophetically wrote, “I intend to travel and write.”

Josef Goebbels – 1925. In his diary he described Hitler at their first meeting as having big blue eyes like stars. “I am in heaven” he said, and the following year wrote in his diary, “Adolf Hitler, I love you.”

Kurt Cobain – 1992. He revealed that he felt incredibly guilty for having abandoned his original fan base.

Virginia Woolf – 1941. She told her diary, “and then there was nothing,” the day before her suicide.

Anne Frank – 1944. This young Jewish girl in Nazi Germany described her life while she and her family hid from the Nazis in the hopes of avoiding the concentration camps.

Lewis Carroll (true name Charles Dodgson). This famous author, who wrote The Adventures of Alice In Wonderland, kept many diaries, some of which disappeared. Pages were mysteriously removed, possibly to protect the privacy of the young Alice Liddell, whom he is said to have proposed to when she was 11 years old. Whispers of pedophilia surrounded him for many years.

Samuel Pepys – He wrote detailed historical accounts of events in London, England in the 1660s in shorthand in his diary, including the Great Plague and the Great Fire.

Some of the most scandalous diaries were written by: 

Anaïs Nin – who wrote of her sexual fantasies of friends and loves vividly;
Catherine Millet, curator and Art press editor-in-chief wrote her memoir of her sexual exploits;
The Marquis de Sade, whose sexual scandals led to exile;
Anne Lister, a wealthy British land owner who was a lesbian. She married a woman in the 19th Century;
Lord Byron, whose diaries were so steamy his publisher burned them.

How about you? Did you pour your heart out to your diary, or did you hold back some information you would not have wanted anyone else to ever read?

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Melissa Keir said...

Like you, I learned early on that no lock or secret hiding place was safe enough from sneaky sisters. They found it and my life was one teasing event after another. As it was, my nickname from them was Missy Pissy, Missy Kissy, Missy Wissy, and anything else they could rhyme with Missy.

R. Ann Siracusa said...

I loved this blog. I've never kept a diary because I haven't been consistent enough, but I do keep a journal of my travels. Melissa, my nickname as a child was Punky, but in college I was Anna Banana.

vicki batman said...

I didn't keep a diary, but now, occasionally write in a journal. It's a good way to get down raw emotions and sometimes I need those for my writing. Mostly, I want to remember events.

Hey girls, I had nicknames too - Ugly, Vicks (both are occasionally used). My sister was Punky and there's an Anna Banana in my family, too, Ann. LOL

jean hart stewart said...

Absolutely fascinating information. I kept a diary when a teenager and when an adult threw it away. It was boring and I made snide comments about my sister that distressed me. I got Jean the Bean sometimes and I never was really thin. Hated it!

Paris said...

My parents didn't believe in censorship (more dad than mom) but they didn't really believe in privacy when it came to their children so the notion of a diary remaining private would have been laughable. If I wrote down anything is was lists of books or songs I enjoyed. I'm still quite the list maker and strangely enough, they can be found in my morning pages/journal that I haphazardly keep these days.

Cara Marsi said...

Gemma, love the excerpts from famous diaries. Too bad your mother felt children shouldn't have secrets. We all need to keep somethings to ourselves or have an outlet to pour out our feelings.

Fran Lee said...

Nope...absolutely not...never wrote a word in the various diaries I was gifted with by friends and family over my long life. I usually doodled little horse pictures, or wrote short romance stories. But like you, I carefully filed all my real memories away in my bursting fertile mind...LOL!

Gemma Juliana said...

Ladies, thank you all for visiting. I'm so glad you enjoyed the blog post. I had fun researching this theme, as well as reading your comments. I think most of us agree that diaries are not secret.

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