Marriage Matters
Hello and welcome to another blog on matters of the heart. I'm back for another scintillating post on love and romance. Be sure to chime in your two cents. The more the merrier.
This time of year, marriage is on my mind. My daughter celebrated her first wedding anniversary on Monday (Aug. 7th) and I celebrated my eleventh yesterday. Both were pretty low key but were wonderful reminders of the commitment made. My daughter's wedding was held at a local church with the reception at the Howell Opera House. It was a beautiful but small event. She and her husband celebrated their anniversary in their new apartment. They recently moved from Michigan to Oklahoma for his job and are off on a new adventure far from family and friends. I'm so excited for them because I know it will bring them closer together and strengthen their marriage.
My husband and I are on our second marriage. We each had been married for 20 and 15 years respectively but things didn't work out, no matter how hard we tried. When we decided to marry, we went for something fun--a Vegas chapel. No Elvis but just the two of us. And we couldn't be happier today.
I'm not going to say it is always easy but this time around, things are better (easier?). We are more understanding and accepting of differences as well as better in tune with our own needs. In the last 11 years, there's not been one fight. But still it takes work. There's a great deal of give and take... but also a little of "is this really a big deal?" or "is this worth an argument?" Most often, the answer is no. I have to say it helps that he does understand me (maybe because he has so many of the same quirks).
Even though, I'm divorced, I still feel bad when another person's marriage doesn't work. I believe in the dream of one person for all time. This morning, I was sad to read about Chris Pratt and Anna Farris' separation on Facebook. What a blow to their family. Hollywood marriages don't have a great track record but I thought they'd had a strong partnership. They had appeared to be such a loving couple, sharing images and teasing each other on social media. Both were super supportive of the other's career. But since I wasn't involved in the marriage, I don't know what really happened. Often one presents a different image in public than what's really going on in private.
Divorce and finding love again is one of my themes I like to write about in my books. Maybe because I know it's possible but either way, I believe everyone deserves a happily ever after. In my book, Crash and Burn, my characters are faced with a life and death situation which gives them a chance to rethink their marriage. Sometimes, life and death is what it takes.
Crash and Burn:
Divorce and finding love again is one of my themes I like to write about in my books. Maybe because I know it's possible but either way, I believe everyone deserves a happily ever after. In my book, Crash and Burn, my characters are faced with a life and death situation which gives them a chance to rethink their marriage. Sometimes, life and death is what it takes.
Crash and Burn:
Can
Rob and Keira's second honeymoon lead to romance, or will it crash and burn?
On
the verge of a divorce, Rob and Keira Matthews book a second honeymoon at the
urging of their counselor. Unable to conceive, they've pushed each other away
in an effort to protect their hearts. Will a romantic holiday be the ticket to
love or a plane crash in disaster?
EXCERPT:
Her husband stomped away in a huff. His damp
clothes accentuated his fit body. The many nights he’d spent lately at the gym
had firmed and toned his already-sexy body into a dream machine. Yeah, and
all those other women ogling him. Too bad the gym didn’t do more for his
attitude. I heard his comment. Why does he always have to push my buttons? He
really shouldn’t have expected me to go walking, looking for…. She
shivered. What if there were bodies? I wonder if anyone else survived the
crash. I’ve got better things to do. Maybe I’ll find out this island is really
a resort like in that romance novel I read. Then I can save the day.
She picked up Gris and gave him a kiss on the
nose. “Little man, you’d never get mad at me. Let’s go find ourselves the
perfect place to rest. Maybe we can prove to that man I’m capable.” With the
dog settled in her arms, Keira headed inland, away from the beach and toward
the jungle.
Trees filled her vision. Their dense foliage
provided shelter and had allowed moss to cover the ground. She welcomed the
softness under her feet. She noticed the drop in temperature as well. The
blistering sun from the beach dappled through the leaves and created a cool,
welcoming environment. The sound of birds and other animals teased her hearing.
She paused and inhaled. A flowery fragrance filled the air.
The trees are so thick, I can’t see more than
five feet in front of me. I hope there aren’t any snakes. Her stomach
knotted. Snakes or lack of food? She pulled Gris closer to her, absently
running her fingers through his fur. I’m sure there’s no coffee joint or
five-star hotel around here. I would’ve seen something before now. Rats. I was
really hoping for the happy ending of a romance novel.
Available in print and ebook at Amazon
***
Thank you for stopping by today and sharing a few moments of your day with me. What do you do exciting for your anniversary? How long have you been married? Or share your favorite memory of your spouse. I'd love to hear from you.
Until next month...





