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Tuesday, December 10, 2013

LA BEFANA: AN ITALIAN CHRISTMAS TRADITION



The shopping season is upon us. I don't know about you, but I'm swamped.

Ann to the rescue.

I've got a way for you to put off the shopping ordeal until after Christmas...as long as you get it done before January 5.

SANTA CLAUS IS COMING
When I lived in Rome in the 1960s, Santa Claus was almost non-existent. Oh, Babbo Natale (Father Christmas) had been visiting Italy since WWII—he wasn’t completely unknown—but Italian children didn’t leap out of bed at the crack of dawn Christmas day and run to see what Santa had brought them. Instead, in Italy, the day children received gifts was January 6, La Befana (The Epiphany).

The Befana is a big part of the Italian Christmas tradition—I don't know if Italian-Americans celebrate it; we never did—and, like many holidays, mixes legend, tradition and a little religion.

IT'S A BIRD, IT'S A PLANE, IT'S...LA BEFANA?
[I'm dating myself; but if you're old enough, you know how the phrase really ends.]

The Befana is a good witch [a nice but ugly old woman with a long, hooked nose] who, on the night between January 5th and 6th (which is the eve of the Feast of the Epiphany) flies on a broomstick to visit all the children of Italy.

She enters the houses through the chimneys and, from the sack she carries, she fills the children's stockings with sweets and small presents if they have been good or a lump of coal or dark candy if they have been bad. Sounds a tad familiar, right?
Although she wears an old, long skirt filled with colorful patches and a black shawl, she is a good housekeeper and will sweep the floor before she leaves. The child's family typically leaves a small glass of wine and a plate with a few morsels of food, often regional or local, for the good witch.

In most regions of Italy, even adults give little presents to each other, and so do lovers, along with stockings full of chocolates.


THE EPIPHANY
According to Wikipedia, Epiphany "is a Christian feast day that celebrates the revelation of God the Son as a human being in Jesus Christ." Martha Bakerjian, on Goitaly.about.com describes the Epiphany as the 12th day of Christmas when the three Wise Men arrived at the manger bearing gifts for the Baby Jesus. Without going into the details, the celebration has been around since at least 380 AD.

It is celebrated by most on January 6 and officially ends the Christmas holiday. In Italy, everyone takes down the decorations on that day. There is an Italian saying that "The Epiphany takes away all festivity."

THE LEGEND OF THE BEFANA
Like everything else, there are a number of theories about origins of the "good witch" including the celebration of the Epiphany and the idea that she's an heir descendent of the Sabine/Roman goddess named Strina, who presided over the new-year's gifts of figs, dates, and honey.

It's also suggested she's the Christian substitute for the old crone who read the augers at the pagan festival of Saturnalia.

"According to the legend, the night before the Wise Men arrived at the manger, they stopped as the shack of an old woman to ask directions. They invited her to come along, but she replied that she was too busy. Then a shepherd asked her to join him, but again she refused. Later that night, she saw a great light in the sky and decided to join the Wise Men and the shepherd bearing gifts that had belonged to her child who had died. She got lost and never found the manger.

Now, La Befana flies around on her broomstick each year on the 11th  night of Christmas in hopes that she might find the Baby Jesus.
Although she has been unsuccessful in her search, she still leaves gifts for good young children because the Christ Child can be found in all children." http://www.goitaly.about.com

Another variation of the Three Wise Men legend is the same up to the point where the old woman has regrets about not going with the Wise Men.

"So she made lots of cakes and walked around outside her home, offering cakes to all the children she met on her way, hoping one of them were Jesus. Since then, Befana brings gifts to all the children." http://www.mybefana.it/

In still another version, found on Wikipedia, La Befana was an ordinary woman with a child she greatly loved.

"However, her child died, and her resulting grief maddened her. Upon hearing the news of Jesus being born, she set out to see him, delusional that he was her son. She eventually met Jesus and presented him with gifts to make him happy.

The infant Jesus was delighted, and he gave La Befana a gift in return; she would be the mother of every child in Italy."

BITE THE BULLET 
Now, go tell your children and/or grandchildren they have to wait until January 6th to open their presents. Oh, yeah. That's going to go well.

ANOTHER WAY TO CELEBRATE THE EPIPHANY
And by the way, if you're running out of ideas for an Epiphany celebration, remember last February's blog about the Russian Orthodox version. In Russia, thousands plunge themselves into icy rivers and lakes to cleanse themselves of sins with water deemed holy. The overnight temperature there at this time of year often drops to about 14° F.

This makes waiting until January 6 for presents look not so bad after all.

HOWEVER YOU CELEBRATE THE SEASON, MAY IT BE WONDERFUL FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
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Monday, December 9, 2013

Holidays are a Time for Miracles

Holidays are a Time for Miracles

Miracle and 34th Street and It’s a Wonderful Life are two of my favorite movies during the holiday season because they celebrate miracles that happen in our lives. Have you ever had a miracle happen to you? I did!

My mom had a medical condition called Neurocardiogenetic Syncope. Basically the big word means she passes out and her heart could stop. There are triggers. The person’s brain thinks that the heart isn’t getting enough blood and pulls all the blood toward the heart causing a blackout. One day my mom, who was only 45, was washing her hair under the faucet at the bathroom sink. She stood up and walked up the five stairs to the living room. When she reached the top, she passed out. Her heart stopped. My father was there and gave her CPR while my sister called 911. At the hospital, mom was in a coma. We were told that she wasn’t going to make it. She was on a ventilator and not breathing on her own. Vigils were conducted by her bedside. We tried everything to get a response from her. We brought in the dog’s collar and shook it so she’d think that her baby was there. We played music. We talked to her. We bargined with God and we prayed. The doctors said that there was damage to her brain.

One night, my father’s priest was brought into the ICU and placed in a room across from my mom. The priest had a heart attack. He was ready to leave this world after a long and happy life. His family was by his side. They were ready to let him go, but only asked one thing…They wanted him to let them know that he was in heaven. Just as the priest passed away, my mom woke up, alert and trying to talk. She recognized us. The priest’s family heard the commotion and came over. They told us what was said and what happened. They believed it was a sign that he had arrived in heaven. To this day, I count this as a miracle. I was fortunate to have my mom for ten more years because of the priest’s sign to his family.

I want to hear about your miracles. Have any happened to you? I’ve used a piece of this story in my holiday book-A Christmas Accident. At only $0.99, it’s a wonderful read for the holidays and will make you believe in miracles.


Expecting her first child, Sherri Wilder Davison wants nothing more than to spend time with her father over the holidays, but fate has a way of changing her best-laid plans.

Adam Davison is willing to do anything to make his pregnant wife happy. He will face hell to have her home for the holidays.

For Sherri and Adam, the holidays are a time of celebration and love, but this Christmas will be unlike any they have ever faced.


When a horrible blizzard causes an automobile accident that puts the lives of those Sherri loves on the line, can a Christmas miracle save them?

Sunday, December 8, 2013

Guest Blog: Elaine Cantrell: Why Are You Reading Romance?

Writing is so much fun. If you’re thinking of writing a book, one of the first things you’ll need to do is pick a genre. I picked romance. Out of all the genres out there, why did I pick romance? Lots of people write romance.

Well, I picked it for several reasons. I think that first of all, most folks are fighting some kind of battle in their lives. Maybe they’re in a relationship that went bad, and they’ve lost the one they love. Whether it was by divorce, death, or just walking away, it tears a huge hole in someone’s heart. Maybe the problem is health-related. Someone has to accept that there are now limitations placed on them. Have you ever dealt with unemployment? How do you feed your children with no paycheck? My romances always have a happy ending which gives us hope that tomorrow things will be better. We can believe that ‘this too shall pass.’

Remember what happened at the end of Gone With the Wind? Scarlett lost Rhett and collapsed in tears, but then she decided to go home to Tara where she can think of a way to get Rhett back. Human beings are designed to hope.

I also think that romances possibly satisfy our craving for justice. In the real world, things don’t always end happily. Children are abused, the missing teen is never found, or our possessions are stolen. In the vast majority of romances you know the bad guys are going to get what’s coming to them. My heroes and heroines sometimes face determined villains, but you can rest easy in the knowledge that the bad guys will never win. My new mainstream romance Blue 52 addresses my hero’s craving for justice.

Last, I write romance because I’m a romantic at heart. I just adore a good love story that makes my heart race and my breath quicken.

Readers, what about you? Why do you read romance? Leave a comment and tell me what you think.

BLURB:
"First Lady Kills President Lovinggood"
December 29, 2018

Thirty years later Hank Lovinggood embarks on a quest to prove his mother's innocence and punish the killers who took his family from him.  Together Hank and lovely physicist Kathryn Sinclair confront an implacable, twisted, merciless enemy who'll do whatever it takes to hide the truth forever.

BIO:
Elaine Cantrell was born and raised in South Carolina where she obtained a master’s degree in personnel services from Clemson University. She is a member of Alpha Delta Kappa, an international honorary society for women educators, Romance Writers of America, and EPIC authors. Her first novel, A New Leaf, was the 2003 winner of the Timeless Love Contest. When she’s not writing or teaching, she enjoys movies, quilting, reading, and collecting vintage Christmas ornaments.

Find Elaine at the following locations.
http://www.elainecantrell.com
http://www.elainepcantrell.blogspot.com
http://www.facebook.com/elainepcantrell
http://www.twitter.com/elainecantrell
http://www.pinterest.com/elainecantrell
http://www.goodreads.com/elainecantrell

Saturday, December 7, 2013

Guest Blog: Denise Alicea: Writing for Teens

Why do some writers love writing for teens? Everyone has their own reasons as to why the write a certain genre. Writing for teens takes us back to when we were younger. It brings all the memories associated with being younger. The emotions that come with it such as first loves, anger, secrets, resentment, and not being understood by your parents. It’s a time that some find easier than their adult lives. I really enjoy writing for teens because it gives me a chance to tell the stories that I wanted to tell. All of us at one point or another wanted to go back in time to change something or to meet our favorite celebrity. This is where my story, Consoling Angel came in. It’s all about the love that I had for wanting to share my story with everyone.

Although I wrote it for myself, I had the opportunity to share it and went for it. I always had a love of young adult books and still do as I continue to read the genre. I also review some of the books that I read as well. There is so much to learn from reading other books. I also am very grateful for belonging to such great writing groups and organizations. I’m grateful for all the people that I’ve met that have also helped me. They have helped me grow in several ways. Being a writer can be lonely, but if you make an effort to make friends then the journey of being a writer is not one to walk alone.

Some of my tips for writing and writing for teens are below. I hope they help and remember to join a group to get feedback because that’s important. Also be sure to read and keep writing!

Tips for Writing
1. No distractions. Find yourself a quiet place for yourself free of distraction. This means no television, phones, etc.
2. Be sure to be surrounded only by the writing materials you need.
3. Free write. Do not think of editing!
4. Learn about blogging and social media. This will serve a huge purpose when you get published.
5. Know all your options from publishing in print to self publishing.

Tips for Writing for Teens
1. Know the genre that you want to write. Read books on the subject, attend workshops, read books on the genre. This will help you understand the genre you are to write. If your a new writer then learn the basics of storytelling, characters, plot etc.
2. Join a writers group. There are plenty of groups around. Whether it be online or no, join one! It’s a great way to meet people who share the same passion as you. It’s also great for feedback and more learning.
3. Always make time to write. Set yourself a schedule and stick to it.
4. Research! Do your research thoroughly whether online or your local library.
5. Keep going. Be sure to stay on your schedule and write.
6. Once you think you have it all, edit your heart out. Be sure to get a critique partner.

Denise
http://denisealicea.com/
http://thepenmuse.net/

 BIO:
Born in Manhattan, New York and raised in Connecticut, she found that she was more interested in what went on in the past, than in the future. Denise always enjoys reading a variety of book genres such as ancient history, fantasy, science fiction, poetry, and romance. She has a great respect for the arts, her first love being drawing and painting. Writing is a medium that would inspire her to share the ongoing stories in her head.


Consoling Angel:
Review copies available in:  PDF | EPUB | MOBI


Genre: Young Adult, Time Travel, Paranormal, and Romance
Book Length: 24 pages
Publisher: Book Baby (self published)

BLURB:
Mira did not know what she had in store the day she fell asleep while wanting to escape her current situation. Overcoming a death from someone so close and burying herself in school and an internship has kept her somewhat awake and alive. An admiration for the actor, James Dean was all that kept the memory of her father alive. If she couldn’t be with her father, she could at least remember what they shared an admiration for together. She always wanted to meet James Dean… she didn’t know it would come true. Be careful what you wish for. It may just come true.


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Contact Links:
Website: http://denisealicea.com
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Friday, December 6, 2013

December Contest - Make Some of Your Christmas Dreams Come True!

Okay, I'm not giving away the guy (if I had him to give, I'd keep him!).

However, you do have the chance to WIN one of THIRTEEN EROTIC ROMANCES in contemporary, paranormal, menage, and suspense. Hee-hee.

Just check out the post and follow the instructions. Good luck!

DECEMBER CONTEST
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"Come here, Baby..."

Rules: Simply leave a comment about the above picture and yummy guy AT THIS LINK: http://www.tinadonahue.com/monthly-contest-2/ - and you’re entered in my December contest! WINNER CHOSEN AT RANDOM.

Duration: Contest begins December 1 and runs through December 25 – Winner announced December 26

Prize: Winner chosen randomly and will receive her choice of one of my following books:

1. Lush Velvet Nights – ebook – Reviewer’s TOP PICK the Pagan & the Pen; 5 ANGELS Fallen Angles Reviews; 5 STARS JERR
GOLDEN NIB AWARD – MIZ LOVE LOVES BOOKS
FINALIST – EPIC 2011 COMPETITION



2.  Adored - ebook – 4 stars Romantic Times; Second Place Winner NEC RWA contest!
FINALIST – EPIC 2011 COMPETITION



3.  Deep, Dark, Delicious - ebook – 4 stars Romantic Times; nominated for Book of the Week Whipped Cream Reviews; 5 Stars, Reviewer TOP PICK – NOR
FINALIST – EPIC 2011 COMPETITION
AWARD OF MERIT – HOLT MEDALLION 2011 COMPETITION



4.  In His Arms - ebook – 6 FIVE STAR REVIEWS – recommended read TwoLips Reviews
FINALIST – DDRWA PICTURE PERFECT CONTEST
4 STARS - ROMANTIC TIMES



5. Sensual Stranger - ebook – Book of the Year 2010 (erotic category) Blue Moon Reviews
Recommended Read TwoLips Reviews – Best Book rating Whipped Cream Reviews – Five Siren Stones Siren Books Reviews – 5 STARS Top Pick Night Owl Reviews
4 STARS – ROMANTIC TIMES



6. The Yearning – ebook – Bestseller
AWARD OF MERIT – HOLT MEDALLION COMPETITION (2012)
Recommended Read Two Lips Reviews; Nominated for Book of the Week Whipped Cream Reviews; 4.5 Stars Sensual Reads



7. Take Me Away – ebook
2nd Place Winner – 2012 NEC RWA CONTEST
Hot Stuff – #1 Pick – Miz Love Loves Books; 5 Stars – Romance Writers Reviews; 4.5 Hearts – The Romance Studio; 4 Stars – JERR; 5 Siren Stones – Siren Book Reviews



8. Unending Desire – ebook
Best Book Rating – LASR (Long & Short Reviews) – Nominated for Book of the Month; 4.5 Stars Sensual Reads; Recommended by ARe (All Romance ebooks); Library Journal reports, ‘…a tale so steamy, it comes with a warning’



9.  SiNN - ebook
Magnificent!! - Romancing the Book; 5 Stars - Mary's Naughty Whispers; 5 Stars - Sensual Reads - Nominated for Book of the Week - Whipped Cream Reviews



10. Sinfully Wicked - ebook
Magnificent!! - Romancing the Book; 4 Stars - The Romance Studio; 4 Stars - LASR (Long and Short Reviews)



11. Claiming Magique - ebook
Top Pick - NOR; 5 Stars - Erotica for All; 4 Stars - United by Books; Recommended by ARe

Claiming Magique by Tina Donahue


12. Illicit Desire – ebook
4 Stars, Romantic Times; 4 Stars/5 Flames, The Jeep Diva



13. Come Fill Me – ebook
5 Stars – A True Gem, Guilty Pleasures; 4 Stars/5 Flames, The Jeep Diva


Good Luck!!!


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