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Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Queen of Procrastination


I swear procrastination is my middle name. Just as my husband. LOL
I had a few ideas for this month’s blog, but I never got around to writing them. So I’ll have to give you something from about a year ago. Not sure where I posted it. Could've been here, if you've read this before I apologize.


The other day I was preparing a blog for a guest appearance spot over at Nine Naughty Novelists. I was writing about adding real life to your stories. It got me thinking of the old adage, write what you know.
I’ll admit I’ve written many stories based off of things I know.
Body Shots has a hero who is a singer. Music is my first love. Back in high school thru my early twenties I dated musicians. I know more about drums than I possibly need to. I’ve spent summer nights just attending concerts. When I was growing up in Upstate New York, every teen spent the summer at Saratoga Performing Arts Center. This was where all the good concerts took place. In 2003 when I was sowing my royal oats (I was celebrating my freedom from my ex), my best friend and I traveled all over to see concerts. In fact once at 5pm on a Saturday night we drove from Albany NY to the Comcast Center in MA (it was the Tweeter Center back then) to see Disturbed and Korn. A three hour drive one way AND we drove back home after the concert. Okay, so we were a little crazy what can I say.
Splashing Good Time the hero owns his own pool company. I’ve been in the business in the past and again in my present, someone close to me owns a few pool stores.
Gettin’ Lucky my heroine owns her own grocery store. My ex-husband and I owned a corner grocery store for almost ten years. And like Marcy, my heroine, the store was in a poor section of town.
Another story that will be published under my real name is about a woman’s journey to motherhood. She’s not taking the conventional way. After finding herself single, because her ex-fiancé doesn’t want children, Hailey decides to take out an ad for a sperm donor.
Granted I’ve never taken out an ad, but I’ve journeyed through the fertility process – more times than I’d like to admit. So I can add those little details to my story that make it that much more believable. Obviously my heroine will get a HEA, but the bottom line is I KNOW fertility.
But should we always write what we know? I say NO. Eventually you’ll come to a point where you want to diversify and move in a new direction. To do this you’ll have to learn something new and experiment. That’s what I plan to do.
I’m embarking on a new chapter or journey in my writing career. I’m taking on a subject and genre that is relatively foreign to me. But guess what? I’m excited about it. I may stumble along the way and I may suck at it, but I won’t know unless I try.
I’ll be honest – I’m scared witless. But that’s the thrill. That’s how I know it’s the right time to do it.
I’ve become too comfortable in my writing. I haven’t challenged myself in a very long time. A friend has thrown down the gauntlet and I’ve accepted the challenge!
Do you only write what you know? If not, how do you step out of your comfort zone?

10 comments:

Paris said...

Stepping out of my comfort zone is the only way I know how to write, lol. I'm a very private person and revealing my characters emotional lives can get very uncomfortable.

And if I only wrote what I know you'd be reading about the laziest human in the world who likes nothing better than to curl up with a good book and a cup of tea:)

Molly Daniels said...

I've added tidbits of my own experiences in my books, but my muse is begging me to give paranormal a try. So hopefully I'll give it a try and see how it goes:)

Cindy Spencer Pape said...

I love trying new genres, settings, character types. It keeps things fresh!

Marie Rose Dufour said...

If I only wrote about things I knew, the books would be pretty boring. I think it's good to get out of your comfort zone.

Amber Skyze said...

Thanks for dropping in and commenting ladies. :)

Liz said...

I stepped out of my zone with a recent m/f/m that is due to be published next month....but what would REALLY give me pause would be to write paranormal. I just don't think I have it in me!
thanks
Liz

Tina Donahue said...

Wow, you've led an interesting life. The 'dating musicians' part really sounded nice. :)

jean hart stewart said...

Yikes, if I only wrote what I know it would be pretty dull. Love the scrapes and sexual stuff my heroines get into... Let imaginations reign..

Mary Corrales said...

Breaking out of your comfort zone is a great way to jumpstart the imagination.

I mostly write paranormal and create my own worlds, so it's hard to write what I know or have experienced.

Good luck on your new adventure!

Katalina Leon said...

I can't wait to read some of your new work. I think this is a natural progression for you and I know you'll shine in a fresh genre!
Best wishes to you, Amber.
XXOO Kat

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