In Defense of Romance Books
To paraphrase the New York Sun from years ago, Yes, Virginia, there
is a need for romance books!
If there is one thing I tire
of when I tell someone I write, it's that look on their faces when I say I
write romance. The expression is a cross between surprise and disappointment.
You can just see that they thought they were going to meet a writer, a writer of books. Real books, not
fluffy, silly romances, which everyone knows are all formulaic and anyone with
half a brain can write.
Do tell.
When I first started writing,
I sort of lowered my voice and changed the topic when people asked me first what
I did and then what I wrote. That didn't last long, however, and now I defend
my chosen genre vigorously. I love reading romances and definitely love writing
them. So, for all of my friends—old and new—who wonder why, here's the answer.
When we read our favorite romance authors, we’re carried away to a
place where anything is possible. In them, we envision ourselves as the
beautiful heroine who always has an interesting job and dreams we know will
come to fruition by the end of the book.
The hero is handsome, rakish,
alluring. He might not understand women any better than our own SOs understand
us, but he’s always stalwart and dependable and willing to pledge true, undying
love by the conclusion of the story. *sigh*
Instead of bludgeoning us
with the contrast between real life and fiction, romance novels spark a deep
sense of comfort, and release us for a time from the worries found in normal
life. Distilled to its base, a romance novel is positive emotion. Even the most
pragmatic among us longs for a happy ending. Yes, despite a plot everyone knows
rationally could never truly exist, and even when the reality of the daily
grind remains to be handled, reading about two lovers who come together and
find happiness makes us feel better about ourselves and our lives. It lowers
the blood pressure and reduces tension. For a while—sometimes for days, weeks,
months—we smile more.
What's better than losing
yourself in a story of forever love? Nothing that I know. Especially in this
day, when everywhere we look there's doom and gloom. Lord knows I need a little
escapism, and I love finding it reading about love.
So I don’t feel guilty when I
choose to read a hot and spicy erotic romance, or a sweet Regency, or even an
old-fashioned bodice ripper. I certainly don't feel embarrassment about writing
them. I'm only answering the undeniable need to counteract what I'm thrust into
every day in the “real” world. Resist? Heck no. I give in and enjoy!
What's the last book you read
that made you feel exquisite? I just finished Christmas at Tiffany's by Karen Swan. I loved it. For a day it took
me away from bills, deadlines and an unfinished manuscript, and made me smile
and feel all tingly. What a great thing to say about anything!
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Naval Maneuvers
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Naval Maneuvers
Men and women of the armed forces experience love and desire pretty much like everyone else. Except, well, there is that uniform. And the hard-to-resist attraction of "duty, honor, service" as a man might apply them to a woman's pleasure. All things considered, romance among the military is a pretty sexy, compelling force for which you'd better be armed, whether weighing anchor and moving forward into desire, dropping anchor and staying put for passion, or setting a course for renewed love with anchor home.
Weighing Anchor (allowing a ship to move forward by retrieving the anchor): A professional woman sworn to avoiding all things military finds herself in love with a lieutenant commander in the Navy. Love won't conquer all if she allows her childhood memories to eclipse future happiness.
Dropping Anchor (securing movement by dropping the anchor): Two people find (surprisingly) that they are both in the Navy and love their chosen professions—until one turns out to be an officer but not a gentleman and the other is a gentleman but not an officer.
Anchor Home (safe, smooth sailing): When two former lovers find each other after more than a decade, will a long-hidden secret threaten the course of a rekindled romance or be the cause of it?
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Dee S. Knight and Francis
Drake are husband/wife erotic romance writers. They have been married for
nearly fifty years and know all about the stress of real life and how to
alleviate the worst of it. Visit them at their website for sweet romance (Ann Krist), historical romance (Amber
Carlton), ménage and shifters (Jenna Stewart), erotic romance (Dee) and beyond
erotic (Francis).
Thanks for having me as a guest blogger. I'll be happy to answer any questions or comments!
ReplyDeleteJust finished re-reading Judith McNaught's Whitney, my love.There's NOTHING like a really good romance
ReplyDeleteI so agree, Jean! What can be bad about something that makes you feel so good?
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