Friday, November 23, 2012

Guest Blog: Katalina Leon: Why Are Women Readers Interested in M/M Romance?


I have to confess that if someone had told me fifteen to twenty years ago that books would go digital, vampires would remain top sellers and women would fall madly in love with male gay romance, I would have said I think you’re mistaken.

I like being surprised and those three trends have genuinely surprised me, especially the warm embrace women readers have given to male gay/ bi-sexual romance or M/M. The popularity of M/M continues to soar with new devotees joining the ranks everyday.

Who knew that would happen and why did it happen?

I’m going to throw out a few of my thoughts and opinions about the current popularity of M/M romance and I BEG YOU TO SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS AND OPINIONS WITH THE REST OF US IN THE COMMENTS

First, let’s state the obvious women are not the only ones reading M/M. Gay and Bi-sexual men love it too and I strongly suspect a lot of straight men sneak a peek, just because it’s nasty hot willy-spanking stuff.

Why?

Because M/M sexuality tends to be frank and to the point. There’s lust, tenderness and romance but it’s male-centric. For the most part it is free of the overwrought tropes used in old style romance novels, which for many readers translates into variety. An M/M storyline can break free of a predictable path and take the reader somewhere else.

Second: M/M romance is inherently Heroic(pun fully intended!) The lovers involved usually take great risks by simply daring to approach a desired partner. Threat of punishment, rejection or exposure is often present. That amount of sexual tension delivers the emotional drama we romance readers crave! When love is declared taboo, risks are taken, forbidden realms explored and hearts are put in harm’s way—you get great story telling that not only turns readers on, it may also leave them weeping in sympathy.

Third: We learn about our hidden selves by looking beyond ourselves. Compassion is a beautiful teacher. M/M romance acts as a mirror to the slippery forbidden realms of female sexuality. M/M often reflects a raw sexuality and makes no apology for pursuing partners who are prized purely because they thrill the heart or deliver immense physical pleasure. Female fans of M/M love seeing male characters brought to their knees, made vulnerable and their loving sides exposed. It’s a paradox but it’s often true that we never see ourselves more clearly than when we are looking at someone else and feeling compassion for them.

Forth: From a female POV men are often the mysterious other country. A million bad jokes have been made about the differences between Venus and Mars but deep down I think most women remain curious about what male sexuality would look like, if women weren’t looking. M/M romance opens that door and allows women a peek into a forbidden world that in the end may look strangely familiar. Love is love and after all is said and done, male or female, it’s still a human heart.

What do you think of M/M romance? Are you a reader, an author or even a critic of M/M, please share your opinion. I love getting comments and I will try to respond to any or all of them with a detailed answer.

Claimed By Dragons
Bag Of Tricks Book 2
Amber Skyze and Katalina Leon
Genre: Erotic-romance, paranormal, dragon-shifters, ménage polyamory.
Publisher: Loose Id Publishing
ISBN: 978-1-61118-903-2
Word Count: 92k
Cover Artist: Valerie Tibbs
Loose Id
All Romance eBooks
Amazon



BLURB:
In an odd Wiccan shop in Salem, Jael pulls an unusual stone from a witch’s wish bag. Little does she know her wildest dreams of adventure and a torrid affair with two gorgeous co-workers are about to come true—in spades.

Jael’s dreamy boss, Roarke offers her the assignment of a lifetime: a photo safari to Mount Kilimanjaro. The African scenery is stunning but the unexpected arrival of her two office crushes, Roarke and Kypton ignites her passion. Just as the trio is getting steamy at a beautiful waterfall, danger intervenes forcing the men to reveal their secret. They're dragons. And now, to save her life, they have no choice but to abduct a startled Jael to their mountain lair on Kilimanjaro.

In the dragons' love nest, Jael learns the truth about their origins and explores all the erotic possibilities two eager lovers can offer. Love awakens, but the guys are being stalked by a covert group of dragon hunters and withholding a life or death secret that will push Jael’s courageous heart and commitment to the limits.

Note: This book contains explicit sexual situations, graphic language, and material that some readers may find objectionable: anal play/intercourse, male/male sexual practices, menage (m/m/f).

Book Trailer: http://youtu.be/F9iN7Ajq4o4">http://youtu.be/F9iN7Ajq4o4

About the Authors:

BIO: Katalina Leon
I’m an artist, an author, mother and wife. I write for Loose Id Publishing and Ellora’s Cave. I try to bring a touch of the mystical and a big sense of adventure to everything I write because I believe there’s a bold, kick-ass heroine inside all of us who wants to take a wild ride with a strong worthy hero.

Night Owl Reviews Author page
Seven Sexy Scribes blog http://sevensexyscribes.blogspot.com/?zx=9dc4c582426b5efe
Katalina’s blog http://katalinaleon111.blogspot.com
Ellora’s Cave http://www.jasminejade.com/m-569-katalina-leon.aspx
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/katalina.leon.142

BIO: Amber Skyze
From a very young age, Amber Skyze began making up stories–the only child syndrome. Telling tall tales to all her friends she never dreamed of putting words on paper. In fact if anyone asked her if she would write when she grew up, she’d have laughed.

It wasn’t until raising children and reading all those romances that she decided–hey, I can write these. HA! Easier said than done.

When not crafting hot, steamy tales, this New York transplant now resides in Rhode Island with her husband, four children (who force her to work a day job), and three dogs.

She currently writes for Ellora’s Cave, Loose Id and is self-published.

http://www.amberskyze.com/
http://amberskyze.blogspot.com

161 comments:

  1. It's funny because if anyone ever told me I'd be writing M/M ten years ago, I'd laughed. Life has a funny way of changing over the years. :)

    ReplyDelete
  2. Excellent post, Kat - very informative. I've never read an M/M novel, but now I'm eager to try the genre. :)

    ReplyDelete
  3. Tina you're in for a treat. It's so much fun to write M/M too. Pun intended M/M runs the full spectrum from flirty and very romantic to push-me-in-the-corner-and-blank-me.
    I wrote my first M/M scene at an editor's suggestion and I never dreamed I would enjoy writing M/M so much.

    ReplyDelete
  4. Video link wouldn't pull up for me, but loved the insights on the blog. I like all the excerpts I read of M/M and wonderf why I haven't read a whole book of it. Time to actually read one as I like all the excerpts....

    ReplyDelete
  5. Kat, I have read a couple of M/M's, and I enjoyed them. If the characters are well written they are just as human as the rest of us. Great post, Kat.

    ReplyDelete
  6. Thank you Jean! Claimed By dragons has a lot of M/M scenes but it's primarily a M/F/M love story.
    If you go to YouTube and type Claimed By Dragons, Amber Skyze, Katalina Leon. The video will come up or enter this
    http://www.youtube.com/watchv=F9iN7Ajq4o4&feature=plcp

    ReplyDelete
  7. I read a lot of M/M. A couple of years ago I was looking for something different and started buying M/M romances and the reason I continue reading them is the same reason that I read any story; because the characters and the plots interest me. Maybe it is the unique dynamic of having two heroes:)

    ReplyDelete
  8. Hi Sandy! You said it well. We all have our own tastes but a love story is a love story regardless of gender.

    Hello Paris! I like writing M/M because it feels fresh to me and I enjoy M/F even more.

    ReplyDelete
  9. discount ativan lorazepam tablets online - ativan 1 mg uses

    ReplyDelete
  10. tramadol overnight shipping tramadol 100mg dogs - online pharmacy tramadol cheap

    ReplyDelete
  11. buy tramadol online with mastercard order tramadol cod overnight - tramadol online from mexico

    ReplyDelete
  12. klonopin buy klonopin kidney stones - klonopin helps with anxiety

    ReplyDelete
  13. buy tramadol online tramadol hcl 50mg recreation - ultram online no prescription overnight

    ReplyDelete
  14. buy tramadol no rx tramadol 50 mg cheap - can get tramadol online

    ReplyDelete
  15. klonopin clonazepam klonopin withdrawal blood pressure - klonopin uses

    ReplyDelete
  16. legal buy tramadol online buy tramadol united states - tramadol for dogs constipation

    ReplyDelete
  17. buy tramadol cod european online pharmacy tramadol - tramadol overdose 50mg

    ReplyDelete
  18. tramadol online tramadol hcl back pain - tramadol hcl 30

    ReplyDelete
  19. buy tramadol no prescription tramadol online pharmacy no prescription - tramadol hcl 50mg recreation

    ReplyDelete
  20. buy ambien online cheapest ambien no prescription - ambien buy online no prescription

    ReplyDelete
  21. buy ativan ativan withdrawal signs - ativan withdrawal with valium

    ReplyDelete
  22. buy tramadol next day tramadol kidney disease - tramadol withdrawal symptoms and duration

    ReplyDelete
  23. buy tramadol uk order tramadol no prescription cheap - tramadol hcl dosage

    ReplyDelete
  24. tramadol online buy tramadol no prescription free shipping - high von tramadol

    ReplyDelete
  25. ativan without prescription lorazepam no prescription overnight delivery - lorazepam 1mg bula

    ReplyDelete
  26. buy tramadol online tramadol order online tramadol 50mg - long will tramadol high last

    ReplyDelete
  27. klonopin online can you overdose klonopin ambien - xanax klonopin side effects

    ReplyDelete
  28. order soma online soma kuroshitsuji - soma drug 2410

    ReplyDelete
  29. tramadol online buy tramadol online new zealand - buy tramadol missouri

    ReplyDelete
  30. klonopin online klonopin and alcohol addiction - klonopin for airplane anxiety

    ReplyDelete
  31. ambien online no prescription buy ambien us - ambien side effects sleep walking

    ReplyDelete
  32. ativan no prescription 4 mg ativan and alcohol - side effects for ativan

    ReplyDelete
  33. order carisoprodol mars volta soma san diego - buy cheap soma online no prescription

    ReplyDelete
  34. buy ambien ambien side effects on the elderly - ambien dosage side effects

    ReplyDelete
  35. tramadol online buy tramadol medication - tramadol dosage depression

    ReplyDelete
  36. klonopin no prescription klonopin getting high - will .5mg klonopin get you high

    ReplyDelete
  37. buy tramadol online buy tramadol overnight cod - buy ultram online cheap

    ReplyDelete
  38. generic ambien ambien orange round pill - ambien cr pdf

    ReplyDelete
  39. klonopin medication can you get high klonopin 0.5 mg - where to buy clonazepam

    ReplyDelete
  40. generic tramadol where to buy tramadol online - buy tramadol 100mg online

    ReplyDelete
  41. buy tramadol online tramadol hcl 50mg tablet r&s - buy tramadol online

    ReplyDelete
  42. buy ambien online ambien prices pharmacies - ambien side effects hair loss

    ReplyDelete
  43. tramadol buy tramadol 50 mg veterinary use - buy tramadol at walmart

    ReplyDelete
  44. buy cheap soma buy soma usa - soma muscle relaxer drug test

    ReplyDelete
  45. generic ambien generic ambien india - zolpidem blue pill

    ReplyDelete
  46. ambien without prescription ambien 10 mg alcohol - buy ambien from us

    ReplyDelete
  47. order klonopin online valium vs. klonopin for anxiety - klonopin zyprexa

    ReplyDelete
  48. buy tramadol online buy tramadol pay with mastercard - can you order tramadol online

    ReplyDelete
  49. generic ambien generic ambien rdy 479 - ambien overdose children

    ReplyDelete
  50. soma online vampire weekend soma san diego tickets - generic soma good

    ReplyDelete
  51. order viagra online cheap where to buy viagra without prescriptions - generic viagra made in usa

    ReplyDelete
  52. tramadol order tramadol paypal - order tramadol from mexico

    ReplyDelete
  53. klonopin klonopin withdrawal restless legs - klonopin 2mg green

    ReplyDelete
  54. buy tramadol online no prescription what are tramadol 50mg used for - tramadol online mexico

    ReplyDelete
  55. klonopin drug effective klonopin dosage - klonopin dosage side effects

    ReplyDelete
  56. order ambien online no prescription price for ambien cr - ambien cr 240 coupon

    ReplyDelete
  57. buy viagra buy generic viagra 50mg - safe to buy generic viagra

    ReplyDelete
  58. ambien price buy ambien online overnight delivery - cheap generic ambien online

    ReplyDelete
  59. buy viagra online forum viagra contraindications - cheap viagra uk paypal

    ReplyDelete
  60. soma medication soma ku - soma scheduled drug nevada

    ReplyDelete
  61. buy klonopin online klonopin forum - klonopin withdrawal easy

    ReplyDelete
  62. order viagra generic legal purchase viagra - buy online viagra viagra

    ReplyDelete
  63. tramadol online buy tramadol in australia - tramadol 50 mg how many get high

    ReplyDelete
  64. ambien online pharmacy ambien side effects the next day - ordering ambien online safely

    ReplyDelete
  65. buy cialis online online pharmacy for cialis review - buy cialis uk cheap

    ReplyDelete
  66. order cialis online reviews of generic cialis - cialis online sydney

    ReplyDelete
  67. generic sildenafil order cheap viagra online uk - how to buy viagra uk

    ReplyDelete
  68. soma medication soma 92110 - online coupons for soma

    ReplyDelete
  69. buy tramadol online tramadol 50 mg ultram - tramadol 50 mg during pregnancy

    ReplyDelete
  70. buy viagra buy viagra online canada no prescription - order viagra internet

    ReplyDelete
  71. buy viagra tosh.0 viagra - best place buy viagra online canada

    ReplyDelete
  72. buy viagra online in usa buy viagra edinburgh - tosh.0 viagra gay challenge

    ReplyDelete
  73. order generic viagra buy viagra uk review - buy viagra online uk next day delivery

    ReplyDelete
  74. how to order viagra online safely viagra twice a day - viagra gel for women uk

    ReplyDelete
  75. buy viagra online something like viagra for women - how to order viagra in australia

    ReplyDelete
  76. order tramadol online cod tapering off ultram tramadol - buy tramadol online

    ReplyDelete
  77. viagra pharmacy cheapest place to buy viagra online - buy viagra east london

    ReplyDelete
  78. generic tramadol can you order tramadol online legally - ultram better than generic tramadol

    ReplyDelete
  79. cialis online where to purchase daily cialis - cheap cialis sydney

    ReplyDelete
  80. finasteride 5mg generic propecia canada - propecia cost at walgreens

    ReplyDelete
  81. buy tramadol online buy tramadol online illegal - tramadol lethal dose

    ReplyDelete
  82. buy generic tramadol online tramadol 325 dosage - high off tramadol 50 mg

    ReplyDelete
  83. propecia online how much does propecia cost on the nhs - propecia persistence program coupon

    ReplyDelete
  84. buy tramadol 180 tramadol 50 mg with tylenol - buy tramadol online us pharmacy

    ReplyDelete
  85. buy propecia online propecia online rezept - generic propecia thailand

    ReplyDelete
  86. order tramadol no prescription tramadol online overnight mastercard - best site buy tramadol

    ReplyDelete
  87. buy propecia buy merck propecia online - propecia reviews user

    ReplyDelete
  88. buy tramadol cheap tramadol online no prescription - tramadol online legal

    ReplyDelete
  89. tramadol online no prescription tramadol ultram dosage - tramadol online no rx

    ReplyDelete
  90. buy finasteride there no generic propecia - how to buy cheap propecia

    ReplyDelete
  91. buy tramadol tramadol 50 mg how many - buy tramadol 100mg online

    ReplyDelete
  92. buy propecia online propecia test results - propecia reviews yahoo

    ReplyDelete
  93. buy tramadol tramadol 800mg - cheap tramadol

    ReplyDelete
  94. buy propecia online propecia side effects pregnant women - propecia questionnaire

    ReplyDelete
  95. buy cheap propecia propecia patent - propecia order

    ReplyDelete
  96. buy propecia online propecia going generic - propecia results on hairline

    ReplyDelete
  97. buy retin-a retin a wrinkles before and after photos - retin a micro 20 g

    ReplyDelete
  98. tramadol online no prescription where to buy tramadol cheap - tramadol hcl xl 150 mg

    ReplyDelete
  99. best buy tramadol buy-tramadol-overnight - tramadol pill identification 627

    ReplyDelete
  100. where to buy tramadol online tramadol recreational use - tramadol overdose fatal amount

    ReplyDelete
  101. tramadol 100mg forum buy cheap tramadol - tramadol no prescription mastercard

    ReplyDelete
  102. tramadol online no prescription tramadol highest dosage - buy tramadol pay cod

    ReplyDelete
  103. buy cheap viagra viagra online us - drug like viagra for women

    ReplyDelete
  104. generic cialis cialis 100mg. online - generic cialis overnight shipping

    ReplyDelete
  105. buy tramadol what's the tramadol high like - tramadol 50mg vs. lortab 10mg

    ReplyDelete
  106. purchase cialis cialis online - order cialis no prescription

    ReplyDelete
  107. tramadol no prescription tramadol for dogs dosage by weight - tramadol hcl 50 mg high

    ReplyDelete
  108. viagra online without prescription viagra 100mg online us - where to buy generic viagra online forum

    ReplyDelete
  109. cialis price cheap cialis free shipping - generic cialis dosage

    ReplyDelete
  110. buy tramadol tramadol online cod - tramadol hcl 50mg get you high

    ReplyDelete
  111. buy viagra safest online pharmacy viagra - cheap viagra jelly us

    ReplyDelete
  112. buy cialis cialis 70 ans - order cialis pills

    ReplyDelete
  113. buy generic viagra buy generic viagra 50mg - do buy viagra online

    ReplyDelete
  114. buy cialis 20mg cialis price in south africa - cialis циалис

    ReplyDelete
  115. buy tramadol tramadol snort get high - tramadol 93 58 side effects

    ReplyDelete
  116. buy tramadol tramadol 50 mg equivalent - buy-tramadol.biz

    ReplyDelete
  117. generic cialis cialis price usa - cialis 05668

    ReplyDelete
  118. cheap viagra viagra without prescriptions illegal - generic viagra from us

    ReplyDelete
  119. buy generic cialis cheap viagra cialis uk - cialis daily take

    ReplyDelete
  120. order cialis no prescription cialis online rezeptfrei kaufen - cialis vs viagra buy online

    ReplyDelete
  121. generic tadalafil cialis from canadian pharmacy online - buy cialis online germany

    ReplyDelete
  122. cialis pharmacy generic cialis no prescription canada - get real cialis online

    ReplyDelete
  123. generic cialis cialis jelly reviews - cialis side reviews

    ReplyDelete
  124. buy cialis no prescription best price cialis 10mg - 40 mg cialis reviews

    ReplyDelete
  125. generic cialis cialis online united states - can you buy cialis canada

    ReplyDelete
  126. viagra online how to buy viagra online safely - buy viagra online dubai

    ReplyDelete
  127. buy cheap tramadol tramadol controlled substance - buy tramadol online australia

    ReplyDelete
  128. buy soma online soma muscle relaxer and alcohol - medication called soma

    ReplyDelete
  129. viagra no prescription viagra online schweiz - viagra online american express

    ReplyDelete
  130. buy soma soma drug recreational - soma drug online

    ReplyDelete
  131. order retin-a retin a micro not covered by insurance - retin-a long term side effects

    ReplyDelete
  132. soma buy motels near soma san diego - buy soma in texas

    ReplyDelete
  133. order soma soma bras boston - buy soma pills online

    ReplyDelete
  134. buy cheap soma soma muscle relaxant dose - soma drug test

    ReplyDelete
  135. order retin-a retin a side effects skin - retin a gel sunlight

    ReplyDelete
  136. buy soma soma bras discount code - soma 350 mg muscle relaxer

    ReplyDelete
  137. buy soma where to buy soma online - buy soma from usa

    ReplyDelete
  138. tramadol without prescription tramadol high liver enzymes - buy tramadol online no prescription overnight

    ReplyDelete
  139. buy retin a retin a para q sirve - retin a micro for acne scars

    ReplyDelete
  140. buy retin a retin a micro gel usage - retin a gel 0.025 side effects

    ReplyDelete
  141. buy generic tramadol buy cheap tramadol no prescription - tramadol without prescription

    ReplyDelete
  142. cheap tramadol tramadol hcl and xanax - tramadol dosage drops

    ReplyDelete
  143. buy retin a buy retin a cream online no prescription - retin a .1 micro gel

    ReplyDelete
  144. buy tramadol next day tramadol online bluebook - cheap tramadol with cod

    ReplyDelete
  145. buy tramadol overnight delivery can get high tramadol hydrochloride - order tramadol cod

    ReplyDelete
  146. buy tramadol online cheap order tramadol online legal - buy tramadol online cheap

    ReplyDelete
  147. buy tramadol overnight generic tramadol online - tramadol online legal

    ReplyDelete
  148. buy tramadol no prescription overnight buy tramadol for dogs uk - buy tramadol online overnight cod

    ReplyDelete
  149. buy retin a retin a micro pump price - retin-a for wrinkles photos

    ReplyDelete
  150. order tramadol online cod discount tramadol online - ultram side effects insomnia

    ReplyDelete
  151. cheap tramadol buy tramadol in uk no prescription - tramadol dosage comparison

    ReplyDelete
  152. cheap tramadol tramadol hcl obat - buy tramadol from canada

    ReplyDelete
  153. tramadol no rx buy tramadol online echeck - can get tramadol online

    ReplyDelete
  154. tramadol generic tramadol overnight cod - buy tramadol online with echeck

    ReplyDelete
  155. buy generic tramadol no prescription tramadol for dogs effects on humans - buy tramadol no prescription online

    ReplyDelete
  156. tramadol online tramadol 377 - tramadol 50 mg image

    ReplyDelete
  157. tramadol generic where to buy tramadol online usa - order tramadol with saturday delivery

    ReplyDelete
  158. tramadol onlineno prescription tramadol online no prescription - buy tramadol overnight delivery

    ReplyDelete