tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5742415355016995707.post5314591934256093586..comments2024-03-24T13:49:53.099-04:00Comments on Romance Books '4' Us: CompromiseUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5742415355016995707.post-81784308154068244132012-07-31T00:04:37.326-04:002012-07-31T00:04:37.326-04:00I'm glad to hear that your friend's husban...I'm glad to hear that your friend's husband would never hurt her. I know in certain communities women are raised to obey.Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01843816981385732033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5742415355016995707.post-45703668252928872902012-07-30T16:15:58.391-04:002012-07-30T16:15:58.391-04:00Sandy, my friend is not afraid of her husband. He&...Sandy, my friend is not afraid of her husband. He'd never hurt her, but she's convinced he'll leave her if she doesn't go along with everything he wants. It has to do with her upbringing.Cara Marsihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05384839120633419382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5742415355016995707.post-6108834326879338712012-07-30T13:46:26.023-04:002012-07-30T13:46:26.023-04:00Fran, I got hold of my hero too late to train him....Fran, I got hold of my hero too late to train him. But, you're right about the training. lol<br /><br />Cara, I'm sorry to hear that about your friend. Tell her she doesn't have to fight to put up a disagreement. I definitely see a lt wrong with that relationship. Is she afraid of him?Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01843816981385732033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5742415355016995707.post-44775594520362512882012-07-29T18:05:02.414-04:002012-07-29T18:05:02.414-04:00Yes, I agree. Our books need conflict, then compro...Yes, I agree. Our books need conflict, then compromise between h/h to show their growth. I like stubborn heroines who finally learn to bend and give up some of their control. We all need to compromise in life. Otherwise, nothing gets done (Congress, anyone?)I have a friend who never, ever fights with her husband. She admitted they never fight because she does everything he wants. He makes all the decisions. Am I the only one who sees so much wrong with that?Cara Marsihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05384839120633419382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5742415355016995707.post-45857947483152460632012-07-29T16:22:34.598-04:002012-07-29T16:22:34.598-04:00Most heroes have to be carefully taught to bend wh...Most heroes have to be carefully taught to bend when needed...LOL! If they adore the heroine, they will bend as much as they most to win her. And some heroines must learn to bend. You are very right,Sandy...there must be a middle ground, or the twain shall not meet.Fran Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06247024581813249889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5742415355016995707.post-59014330676680696882012-07-29T16:22:04.616-04:002012-07-29T16:22:04.616-04:00Most heroes have to be carefully taught to bend wh...Most heroes have to be carefully taught to bend when needed...LOL! If they adore the heroine, they will bend as much as they most to win her. And some heroines must learn to bend. You are very right,Sandy...there must be a middle ground, or the twain shall not meet.Fran Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06247024581813249889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5742415355016995707.post-450610057161393612012-07-29T15:57:04.496-04:002012-07-29T15:57:04.496-04:00LOL Me, too, Jean. You're right life is one ...LOL Me, too, Jean. You're right life is one big compromise.Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01843816981385732033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5742415355016995707.post-19100944529162252322012-07-29T14:41:36.009-04:002012-07-29T14:41:36.009-04:00Of course I agree. Life is one big compromise, one...Of course I agree. Life is one big compromise, one way or another. But I loved the bodice rippers!jean hart stewarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12287808234288499369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5742415355016995707.post-77258300919662922012-07-29T10:58:15.860-04:002012-07-29T10:58:15.860-04:00Thanks, Tina. I remember the bodice rippers and h...Thanks, Tina. I remember the bodice rippers and heroes being jerks, but didn't we like it? lol We read them. Snort!Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01843816981385732033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5742415355016995707.post-28529607117908882862012-07-29T08:00:42.944-04:002012-07-29T08:00:42.944-04:00Absolutely. When bodice rippers were in vogue, the...Absolutely. When bodice rippers were in vogue, the heroes (IMO) were all jerks. It was their way or the highway. I like a hero with a sense of humor who can bend when he has to - especially when it's for his lady. :)Tina Donahuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07160021732404091277noreply@blogger.com